I have found my purpose and it has multiple facets.
- I am embodying and expressing myself as fully and
authentically as possible, while empowering and
coaching others to do the same.
- I am building a sacred holistic sanctuary in nature
where fauna/flora and humans have space to
regenerate and grow.
I am devoted to divine union, first within myself,
followed by the union with my life partner.
Continue to learn
How I serve & where I come from
Welcome
to my site
Arno De Ridder
Divine Union
unity with the divine
unity with yourself
unity with partner
Shamanism
4 elements + ritual
trance + sound
men circles
Inner Child Healing
parenting yourself
rewriting trauma stories
letting go of old beliefs
Meditation
guided meditation
different techniques
imagery
How
I
serve
Cosmic sexuality
multi orgasmic man
harness sexual energy
masculine & femine polarity
Breathwork
cosmic breathing
wim hof breathing
breath journey
Psychology
psychotherapy
psychedelic integration
addiction
Holistic health
healthy body
healthy environment
healthy food
Where I come from
I grew up close to nature and the ocean. I now only fully realize how
much of a gift this was, as this deepened my connection to the
complexity and genius of the web of life.
I had a wonderful childhood with a mix of trauma in the form of
regular physical punishments and often getting compared with
others who ‘performed’ better. I was bullied at school for being skinny
and had a hard time fitting in.
This got integrated into my identity which then evolved in a lot of
coping strategies, some major limiting self beliefs and a hefty dose of
people pleasing. I got addicted to a lot of things like weed, alcohol,
tabaco, porn, gaming, ...
All a desperate attempt to self-medicate and numb out all the
emotions and thoughts I never learned how to deal with. Until my
mother passed away at the age of 20 I was digging myself deeper
and deeper in this self-destructive pattern.
That year it got worse first until I hit rock bottom.
I had to do something, I was tired of having suicidal thoughts which I
started having from the age of 14, tired of feeling unsafe in the world,
tired of feeling depressed, tired of depending on all these external
things to just survive. I wanted to live fully again.
Doing the work
It started with acceptance and radical honesty. I was not where I wanted to be, I felt terrible and the more I tried to numb it all the harder it got. I wanted change and I was committed to never give up on myself even though it seemed hard. In the 10 years leading up to where I am right now I started to look for healthy tools. The biggest one I already had and sometimes toxically used was exercise, then I rediscovered the peace being in nature brought me, I found yoga and breathwork. Slacklining crossed my path and I challenged myself with new sports. Martial arts had a big impact on me as well. I started studying trauma, followed courses around breathwork and trauma, got myself a degree in psychology after 7 years. Bit by bit step by step I got more free from my addictions and could depend more on myself. I grew the capacity of my nervous system to deal with difficult emotions and hold space for them without needing to numb or distract myself. I overcame my addictions and learned new healthy habits to replace them with. I found and invested in my spiritual growth and mental development to get rid of the limiting beliefs and negative stories I had around myself and the world. I can’t say I don’t have any issues anymore or am free of difficulties but I found a way to deal with what life throws at me and use the tools I have collected to always get up again.
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Step into your infinite potential
So here we are, I trust you learned a bit about me and how I work I love to help my fellow brothers and sisters on this planet and really hope to be of assistance to you, here are some of my offers at this moment.
Discovery call |45m
€ Free
lets find out your biggest challenges see if I can be of service get better insight in your life atm overview of weaknesses & strengths refreshing the vision for your life online
Coaching call | 1h
€ 55
guided session option for meditation option for breath here we focus on the most pressing issue for you in the moment Online or in-person
Inner child healing | 1h30 Breathwork
€ 80
guided sessions release old limiting beliefs/stories release stored emotions from the body Online or in-person
Arno De Ridder
How to get in touch
If I peaked you’re interest or you want to book a free discovery call to see whats up, I gladly have a no strings attached chat with you. You can contact me following the QR-code or mailing me at: arno.deridder@outlook.com or visit: https://linktr.ee/arnoderidder